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The word femme is taken from the French word for woman. The word butchmeaning "masculine", may have been coined by abbreviating the word butcheras first noted in George Cassidy's nickname, Butch Cassidy. There is debate about to whom the terms butch and femme can apply, and particularly whether transgender individuals can be identified in this way.

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Instead, they argue that gender is socially and historically constructed, rather than essential, "natural", or biological. The femme lesbian historian Joan Nestle argues that femme and butch may be seen as distinct genders in and of themselves.

It is not ah for women with a butch appearance to face harassment or violence. Like the term "butch," femme can be used as an adjective or a noun.

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Femmes gained value as their own lesbian gender, making it possible to exist separately from butches. For example, Susie Brightthe founder of On Our Backsthe first lesbian sex periodical of its kind, identifies as femme. In "Negotiating Dyke Femininity", lesbian scholar Wendy Somersonexplains that women in the lesbian community who are more Meet lesbian studs and femmes an lesbian social place and do not fit into the "butch" stereotype can pass lesbiaan straight. She believes the link between appearance and gender Sexy wives seeking sex Scottish Borders and one's sexuality should be disrupted, because the way someone looks should not define their sexuality.

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Those who identify as butch and femme today often use the words to define their presentation and gender identity rather than strictly the role they play in a relationship, and that not all butches are attracted exclusively to femmes and not all femmes are exclusively attracted to butches, a departure from the historic norm. The meanings of these terms vary and can evolve over time.

A woman who likes to receive and not give sexually is called a "pillow queen". The term boi is typically Horny women in Albert, OK by younger LGBT women.

Defining the difference between a butch and a boi, one boi told a reporter: To me, butch is like an adult You're the man of the house. Lesbians who are unisex and neither butch nor femme are called "androgynous" or "andros".

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Another common term is "Stud". A stud is a dominant lesbian, usually butch. They tend to be influenced by urban and hip-hop cultures and are often, but not always, Afro-American. Infilmmaker Daniel Peddle chronicled the lives of AGs in his documentary The Aggressivesfollowing six women who went to lengths like binding lesbiam breasts to pass as men.

But Peddle says that today, very young lesbians of color in New York are creating a new, insular sociak that's largely cut off from the rest of the gay and lesbian community.

Prior to the middle of the 20th century in Western culture, homosexual societies were mostly underground or secret, making it difficult to determine how long butch and femme roles have been practiced by women.

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Meet lesbian studs and femmes an lesbian social place reported that women held strong opinions, that "role distinctions needed to be sharply drawn," and that not being one or the other earned strong disapproval from both groups. In contrast to ONE, Inc. This was especially true in relation to the butch identity, as the organization held the belief that Meet lesbian studs and femmes an lesbian social place into heterosexual society was the goal of the homophile movement.

Gender expressions outside of the norm prevented assimilation. In the s, the development of lesbian feminism pushed butch-femme roles out of popularity.

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This dress was very similar to butch dress, weakening a key identifier of butch lesbians. While butch-femme roles had previously been the primary lwsbian of identifying lesbians and quantifying lesbian relationships in the s, 50s, and 60s, lesbian feminist ideology had turned these roles into a "perversion of lesbian identity".

In these excluded communities, butch-femme roles persisted and grew throughout the s.

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